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"The master of relating. Being able to make another feel seen and heard by understanding their reality. A model of compassion and caring. Balanced give and take. Uncovering your true authentic expression through diversity in relationships."
As we reach the 7th house, we embark on a brand-new evolutionary cycle for your soul. Wanting to explore all the ways to engage and interact within relationships. What does the reaction/feedback of others say about me? How do I give and receive in a way that is authentic and balanced? What do other perspectives and ways of living have to show me?
Since this is a new cycle, it’s important to understand and have compassion for yourself and others as you go. You are meant to have many powerful, dynamic, transformative and at times, intense experiences. As always with Pluto, experiencing imbalance is typically in the cards. Things like power dynamics, abandonment, limiting beliefs, rejection and non-transparency are all possible. Understanding there is purpose in all of these experiences, no matter how difficult they may be, is key.
Let's say you become interested in cosmetology. Something you feel may be your profession one day. You've worked as a dental hygienist for a few years and it's not something you want to continue. You decide to attend a conference where you can network and get info from others in the industry. While there, you strike up a conversation with someone who has years in the industry and is building their own line of products. Sparks fly and a romantic relationship ensues. They are very curious about you, asking a lot of questions and it feels good that they get you on a very deep level. Aside from that, they offer guidance and advice not just about cosmetology, but other areas of life. From their perspective, you are someone who makes them feel special, supported, and loved. They are thankful for your presence, something they haven't experienced in other relationships. The both of you become inseparable.
As time goes by, you find yourself knee-deep in helping them with their new line of products. You are making calls, holding meetings, researching, and taking care of the day-to-day. They are also busy making new connections, doing research, and continuing their education. Things are pretty hectic, and you start to notice a growing discontent inside. After a number of discussions with your partner, they aren't experiencing the same discontent and feel things have been going well. The uneasiness inside continues to grow and eventually, there is an impasse which leads to a parting of ways.
In reflection, you notice the emotional connection you shared early on, had gradually faded. The cosmetology aspirations and desire to exit your dental job were put on hold. Other hobbies, interests, and things that brought you enjoyment prior to the relationship were also pushed to the side. The realization hits that you became an extension of your partners' reality and lost your own.
Your partner was left confused and unclear where things went wrong. Without your presence, they feel like a part of themselves is missing. As they reflect, they begin to realize that this relationship was highlighting a "need to be needed" within.
This experience gives you both the opportunity to understand yourselves better. Leading to a clearer sense of self, establishing better personal boundaries, and the ability to have balanced give and take moving forward. For you, no more "losing yourself" and for your partner, no more "needing to be needed". You have helped each other in many ways even if the ending, realization, and processing were difficult.
Another scenario is attracting someone who possesses the same behavior/qualities as a parent. Let's say one of your parents was absent or emotionally unavailable. You may be vibrating a frequency that says, "I'm looking for someone that will provide the emotional security I didn't get from my parent". That will be a frequency match to another that is put on your path to help you realize emotional security within. A relationship forms and there is a repeat of childhood (they are emotionally distant or leave). This experience is meant to trigger reflection, understanding, and integration so you can establish a strong emotional foundation. No longer dependent upon another to do that for you which will attract healthy relationships with no projected needs. The same purpose in the dynamic with your parent.
The closer you get to someone in a relationship, the more you'll begin to see anything that your soul is looking to uncover and integrate. Anything that "triggers" you about someone's words or actions is like a tap on the shoulder from your higher self/guides to understand the deeper meaning for yourself. Were their words/actions something you are denying within yourself (maybe you say or do the same thing but don't realize it)? Is it bringing to the surface limiting beliefs, words, or actions from a relationship in the past (i.e., parent/guardian)? Is this a signal to create distance in the relationship? The intent is to get to a calm place and become an observer of your reality. Noticing your thoughts and actions. Listening and understanding others. Possibly enlisting others who have the capacity to help you process without judgment (towards you or the other person).
Maybe when you were young, your dad was really hard on you, continually putting pressure to succeed and it seemed like nothing you did was good enough or right. The belief formed that you'll get things wrong or aren't quite good enough. Let's say your partner cracks open the paint you just bought for the living room and becomes frustrated with you because the color isn't right. You get triggered, yell at your partner and toss those paint cans across the room ;)
Is your partner being too hard on you, or is this a replay of the dynamic with your father? Are they helping you realize that your dad was projecting his own lack of self-worth onto you? Looks like that limiting belief wants to be transformed! So…what an amazing gift of awareness was embedded in buying the wrong paint ;) Through this trigger, you have the opportunity to begin shifting your self-perception. It also provides clarity on why your father was so hard on you, which can bring compassion. Once this is fully realized and integrated, you'll no longer attract or be triggered by criticism from others. This one event is packed with the ability to shift many perceptions and raise your frequency.
Every relationship is a mirror of what is happening within and is all based on love. Experiences that are part of each soul's evolution. The key is understanding what is being shown about yourself when there are difficult experiences. The awareness and integration you achieve will have a profound impact on your life and relationships, heal your ancestry and contribute to raising the consciousness of the collective.
The evolutionary intent here is embracing Aries/1st House energy. Through the reflection of relationships, being able to understand your own needs and desires. Being secure within yourself and a model of compassion and caring. Establishing healthy boundaries, eliminating projections, full authenticity, and using intuition/higher self to help navigate. Attracting many people with diverse backgrounds to which you can collaborate, enjoy each other’s company and create. Being able to listen and understand another's reality while encouraging independence and differentiation in others.
Refer to the article here on Pluto generational descriptions to find which you are a member of to learn what mode of operation you've chosen for this lifetime. As always, there are many other factors that play into how this energy is experienced individually. If this resonates and would like to learn more, you can order a 'Soul Map' report here or schedule a session with me here.
Some people you may know with Pluto in their 7th house....
Barack Obama
Elizabeth Taylor
J. K. Rowling
Whoopi Goldberg
Alan Watts
All the best,
Keith
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